Thursday, May 23, 2013

Sex and Your Soul



The physical health benefits of sex are widely known.  In fact, information on the mental and emotional health benefits are commonly talked about, too.  But, what is rarely mentioned is how you can enhance your connection to your soul and to your lover’s soul through lovemaking.  Orgasmic and sexual energy opens a gateway into the spiritual dimension.

Being aware of the sensations in your body as well as any out-of-body sensations during lovemaking and/or at the point of orgasm offers you the opportunity to direct the sexual energy toward a goal.  Your goal may be any range of things from physical healing to a new job to deepening your intuition and connection to spirit.

As you likely already know, everything is made up of energy.  Making passionate love to your sweetheart draws together a plethora of powerful orgasmic energy.  It is this phenomenally influential and magickal energy that you can learn to focus towards those amazing things you are wishing to magnetize to you. 

Focusing on opening a spiritual gateway and having a goal set for your orgasmic energy doesn’t take away from your sexual experience.  In fact, it can actually deepen the bond between you and your lover and heighten your sensuality.  Instead of getting lost in just the physical pleasure, you become more fully present and open to the sacredness of your physical, emotional, mental and spiritual bond between the two of you.

Tapping into the ultimate creative source through sex within a committed loving relationship allows a spiritual channel to open.  Your creativity will be enhanced, your self-esteem and confidence will expand, you will be able to gain deeper clarity, your problem solving skills will increase, you will move beyond your current pleasure boundaries and your sex life, your emotional life and your spirituality will be stimulated.  

In these modern times, more and more people are seeking ways to expand their consciousness.  They want to connect to their souls and have better access to their intuition.  There are a vast number of spiritual practices that can help you do this – reconnecting with nature; meditating; yoga; shamanic journeying; having a session with a channeling expert, trance dancing and much more.  In ancient times, it was understood that sacred sexuality was a spiritual practice as well.  Over time, fear and disbelief have hidden this beautiful knowledge from daily life, but it is past time to remember how profound and extraordinary sacred lovemaking truly is.

You may be wondering how to access this if you are not currently in a loving, committed relationship.  Can you open that gateway alone?  Can you direct sexual energy and draw amazing things into your life by yourself?  The answer is yes.  Yet at the same time, it is important to point out that when two people are creating or drawing sexual energy together and together they focus on a specific outcome the results are exponentially more powerful.   

Whether you learn to engage in sacred sexual and magickal practices alone or together with your beloved you will activate your Divine power.  You will potentially gain access to deeper intuition, your Spirit guides, past life experiences, and healing.  You will discover a sense of joyful bliss that you can tap into whenever you want it or need it.  And, the synchronistic and serendipitous events that begin to show up in your daily life will leave you in awe and wonder.

Does this sound similar to the Law of Attraction method?  Well, they are similar, but at the same time quite different.  Learning and implementing sacred sexual and magickal practices goes much deeper than the basic concepts of the Law of Attraction.  When you are in a space in which you can blend your spirit with your lover’s and merge your sexual and orgasmic energy together the results are – well, out of this world.

The most amazing part is that you don’t have to learn special positions or special physical techniques to bring these phenomena into your life.  It is about learning to open your heart and open your soul to positive and light-filled experience.  It is about learning to connect with and then collaborate with your soul and your lover’s soul.  Anyone can learn to direct sexual energy through a variety of magickal methods.  Therefore, it doesn’t matter who you are, you have access to the Divine, to the Universe, to Spirit, to God, to the Creative Source just like everyone else.  

Janelle Alex, Ph.D. & Rob Alex, M.Sc. – Co-Founders of Sexy Challenges
© 2013

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Friday, May 17, 2013

10 Things Your Preacher Doesn't Want You To Know


10 Things Your Preacher
Doesn’t Want You To Know
*Prepare to either be offended or simply enjoy the lightheartedness.

  • 1.  WWJD
  • 1.     WWJRD (What would Jesus really do?):  He would laugh, love, and share mad, passionate, hot, steamy sex with his sweetheart! Why? Because he understood the beautiful power of energy – especially the creativity of sexual energy.
  • 2.     Sex is the ultimate life force: Isn’t it obvious?  What creates life?  What creates a child?  Sex!  What was the big bang?  An orgasmic explosion!  Where do new ideas and concepts come from? Creativity.  What creates?  Sex via the Divine.  Conception in all ways = the life force.
  • 3.     Orgasm is a prayer: Honoring your soul, your lover’s soul, spirit, the Divine, the Universe, God, Goddess, your Higher Self, etc. can be done through making love with your beloved and experiencing orgasm.  This experience is really a prayer.  It is a way to connect to the Divine source and appreciate ALL.
  • 4.     The People in the Pew In Front of You Are Doing It: Okay, maybe not at that very moment.  That might be…well, inappropriate in our society to have sex during church, in the pew, in front of everyone.  But, they ARE doing it.  They just may have been taught to believe it is supposed to be kept hush hush.
  • 5.     The Bible is Actually Fiction:  Eke – you say!  It was written/compiled around 325 AD – that is over 300 years after Jesus!  The First Council of Nicea was a group of Catholic Bishops who got together and decided what stories (passed down for hundreds and hundreds of years) would go in the Bible.  Come on – we all know that oral stories passed down get changed and filtered…the fish get bigger, the heroes become more heroic, the hardships harder to bare, etc.  Even the book of Genesis has two, maybe even three, versions of creation.  It is a nice novel filled with metaphors and symbolism – don’t fall into the trap of taking it literally.
  • 6.     The Ark Was a Floating Brothel: Well, at least for the animals – if you even believe there was an ark.  Those animals had better have been getting busy if they wanted to survive!
  • 7.     Mary Didn’t Ride an Ass, She Got Some Ass: Uh, oh!  Have we gone too far?  Nah!  Immaculate conception our asses.  She and Joseph made love before marriage.  Big fricking deal!  Well, it was then.  Joseph could have chosen to stone her to death!  Yes, the Divine is more powerful than we can comprehend, but believing that Mary and Joseph couldn’t possibly have made love prior to marriage is foolish.  It is simply ridiculous to make such a big deal out of them having sex – they were even already engaged.  Remember lovemaking is beautiful and these two people apparently shared their passion.  Then, surprise!  She conceived.
  • 8.     Jesus Got Busy: Jesus was a powerful, charismatic speaker.  He is an ascended master and is/was deeply enlightened.  But, he was a man too.  It is said that he and Mary Magdalene left the area after his supposed death, shared their physical and spiritual passions and had a number of children. 
  • 9.     You Can Direct Your Sexual Energy to Manifest: You can learn to direct the sexual and orgasmic energy that you and your lover draw to you.  You can manifest more money, physical healing, abundance, and so much more into your life and into the lives of those around you.  Making love with your sweetie offers you an opportunity to pierce the veil between the physical dimension and the spiritual dimension.
  • 10. The Preacher Has Downloaded Every Single Sexy Challenge: Now, why would he do that?  Because he knows the power of sex and the power of directing his and his partner’s sexual energy!  But, he wants to maintain his authority and his power – so he tells you it can’t be done and that having sex in this way or that way or during this time or that time is wrong and you will be punished.  Geesh!  You know in your heart the truth…and your body is trying to tell you!  Isn’t it time you listen?

So, right about now you are either pissed off, shocked, devastated, excited, have had the light turned on, or you are laughing your ass off.  We know the power of orgasmic energy and Sexy Challenges can take you there.  Guess what?  We aren’t going to be quiet about it either!  We are shouting it from the mountaintops.  Join in the spiritual revolution and tap into your Divine power!   
Rob Alex, M.Sc. & Janelle Alex, Ph.D.
Sexychallenges.com
Copyright 2013


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Monday, May 6, 2013

Sexual Altars



Sexual Altars

What are they?  We talked about these on our podcast today, but we wanted to share a few takeaways from this particular discussion.

1.  You likely have altars throughout your home even though you don't realize it.  Your mantle, a particular shelf, your dresser, and a lot more.

2.  An altar is a way of honoring what you love and respect and want to be constantly aware of in your life.

3.  A sexual altar is a way to honor your lovemaking and it is something you can bring into your ceremonies and rituals when you are working towards directing your sexual energy towards a specific goal, wish or desire.

Today this is our virtual altar - honoring you and your beloved!

Listen to this podcast episode here http://bit.ly/13myBJI
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Saturday, April 27, 2013

Manifesting via Directing Sexual Energy - Can You Accidentally Manifest Stuff You Don't Want?


Can you manifest amazing things into your life through lovemaking with your sweetheart?  Can you learn how to direct your sexual energy and magnetize the things you want?

You bet!  

Is it as easy as rubbing Aladdin's lamp and waiting for a genie to pop up and grant you 3 wishes?  NO!  

But, it doesn't need to be complicated either.  There are easy steps that beginners can take to quickly increase the occurrence of synchronistic events in their lives.  These same steps can deepen the bond with your lover and expand your consciousness as well as enhance your spiritual growth.  

Okay - woo hoo!!!  Right?  Awesome, exciting, fantastic!

But, what if you are in a bad mood or have negative thoughts running around in your mind?  Can you unintentionally manifest more negative things into your life?  

We talked about this question on our podcast, Sexy Challenge Heartbeats, this week.


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Friday, April 26, 2013

Q&A When is Enough Enough?


Today we elaborated on a podcast we did a few months back.  It focused on romance novels and their impact on relationships. Listen it to here. Our episode today focuses on when enough is enough.  After all sometimes there are those who get too wrapped up in novels or romantic movies or celebrities and then you lose touch with your partner.  Listen to it now!

Come see us at SexyChallenges.com.

Light and love,
Janelle and Rob


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Sunday, April 21, 2013

Friday, April 19, 2013

How Did It All Start? - Wacky Wednesday Podcast Episode


Where did it all start?  Who came up with the idea to try this or that when it came to sex and love making?  Since today is Wacky Wednesday we get a little silly randomly tossing out ideas of where some things might have started from.  Of course, these aren't actual historical facts, but some of them are pretty funny.  After all, have you ever thought about where this technique or that practice came from?

Have a sexy day,
Rob and Janelle


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Thursday, April 18, 2013

Maca Powder Can Enhance Your Libido


Yay! We just got a new shipment of Maca Powder. 

We really like it.  There are mixed reviews, but aren't there almost always mixed reviews :)  

It can enhance your sexual drive.  It increase our energy.  It can even help reduce some symptoms of menopause.  Of course, every person is different and may feel no benefits.  

It is important with this herb as with any supplements, vitamins and/or herbs to not overuse it.  Be sensible and don't "overdose" on it.  If you take too much, you can do more harm than good.

We only put a small scoop (about a 1/2 tablespoon) in our smoothies each morning.  And, we really like having it.  Wouldn't go without it :) 


Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Our Sexy Diet Together


We recently decided to lose those last few pounds and we wanted to do it together.  We just wanted to feel sexier and healthier and more energetic.  And, today we decided that we wanted to share a little bit about our experience with you.  Of course, we ended up with a lot of laughter and somewhat off-topic stuff during our episode too.  LOL


With love,
Rob and Janelle

Have a question you would like us to respond to via our Q&A Fridays?  Email your question to sexychallenges@gmail.com.


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Monday, April 15, 2013

What Turns You On

From person to person and from day to day what turns you on will vary. We talked about this is a bit today. Join us and find out what turns you on. Oh, and we even share a little about what turns us on.



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Friday, April 12, 2013

How Can Chakras Affect Your Sex Life?


We recently talked to a friend of my about the amazing impact that our chakras have on our lives.  Chakras are energy centers within our bodies if you don't know.  The sacral chakra has a major impact on our sex lives as well as numerous other areas of our life.  Listen in as we talk to Joanna Leigh Osmond and she shares her insights as well as one very simple healing meditation that you can practice.  If you aren't into meditation, this practice she shares could be considered as a quiet breathing exercise.  Very easy, quick and can leave you with a little zing. Joanna Leigh Osmond is an Intuitive Business Coach and Mentor for Women of Amazing Purpose.  She can read energy - even from a distance - and help you heal, clarify, and discover what she calls a blueprint of your light.  Learn more about her and what she offers at http://www.joannaleighosmond.com.
Discover your sensuality and spirituality to create magick.  Go to http://www.sexychallenges.com today! Have a question you would like us to respond to?  Drop us an email at sexychallenges@gmail.com. Light and love, Janelle and Rob Alex Photo credit: © twentyfree - Fotolia.com


Thursday, April 11, 2013

Balloon Fetish - Wacky Wednesday


This week's Wacky Wednesday episode is about a really strange fetish that a small number of people have. They REALLY have a thing for balloons! For some reason balloons, blowing up balloons, popping balloons, bouncing up and down on balloons, rubbing balloons on their bodies, etc.turn them on. Listen in as we share our thoughts on this strange fetish we came across.

You can learn more about this fetish at balloonfetish.org if you are really curious.


Go to www.sexychallenges.com for more on discovering your sensuality and your spiritutality via Sexy Challenges.

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Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Eco-Friendly Sex - Does it exist?

Have you ever thought about your lovemaking being (or that it should be) environmentally friendly?  Have you ever heard the term "greengasm" before?  There are actually some very interesting and strange eco-friendly sex toys, lube and even lingerie.  We talk about some of these in this episode of Sexy Challenge Heartbeats.  Learn some interesting things and share in a few laughs!

Make sure to check out our Sexy Challenges on iTunes, Amazon or Barnes and Noble.

Have a question for our Q&A Friday episodes? Email us at sexychallenges@gmail.com or post the question on our Facebook fan page.

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Monday, April 8, 2013

Q&A How Many Licks Does It Take?

Do you want exact techniques, specific positions, particular aphrodisiacs that will give your lover (and you) the most pleasure?  Well, guess what?  As many times as you see those magazines in the check-out line that promise to give you just that - answers to these questions, the truth is that only you and your lover can figure out what works for you - how many licks will it take?

Listen in as we talk about this on today's episode - along with a lot of laughs!

Go to www.sexychallenges.com to learn more about us and what we offer! 

Sexy Challenges and Intimate Adventures are available on iTunes, Amazon, Barnes and Noble.


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Sunday, April 7, 2013

Love Oil - Tip of the Week Video


Tip of the Week
We share with you about Bonnie's Balms and Love Oil!

Bonnie Lyon's amazing and all natural balms and oils are simply amazing!