Communication in your relationship might seem to some like the game Boggle. Where all the words are shaken up and you are trying to piece them together. This is not uncommon in many relationships. Communication is often the spot where a relationship breaks down and take a turn for the good or bad. Communication can get better the longer you are together, it doesn't have to get worse. You just have to find and understand the best way each of you communicate. Don't expect your partner to communicate in the way you do. Blend both your communication styles into one that works for your relationship.
Here is a book we put together on the 8 Ways We Communicate With Our Partner